Relationship Spread

Positions

1. 1YouYour attitude and state in the relationship.“Where am I in this relationship?”SelfRelationship
2. 2The otherThe other side's attitude as the querent perceives it.“How do I see the other person?”The otherRelationship
3. 3Foundation of the relationshipThe bond that holds the relationship together.“What connects us to each other?”EssenceRelationship
4. 4Your expectationWhat you want and need from the relationship.“What do I really want from this relationship?”ConsciousRelationship
5. 5The other's expectationThe other side's need, again read through the querent's perception.“What do I think the other person needs?”The otherRelationship
6. 6ChallengeThe relationship's current test.“What is challenging us?”ObstacleRelationship
7. 7DirectionThe course and potential of the relationship.“Where is this relationship heading?”Possible outcomeRelationship